And What Else Are They Asking You to Support?

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Somewhere along the way, many people realized they were exhausted by constantly being emotionally managed.

Every platform wants outrage.
Every movement wants allegiance.
Every algorithm wants reaction.

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My mailbox has become a strange little museum of modern anxiety.

Every afternoon there is another glossy postcard warning that civilization is collapsing unless I donate immediately. There are envelopes designed to look like tax notices. Emails marked FINAL WARNING in capital letters. My phone vibrates because someone liked a post, or because an algorithm has decided I need to be angry before breakfast.

Modern life feels increasingly built around one central activity: keeping human beings emotionally activated long enough to influence their behavior.

Sometimes to buy something.

Sometimes to support something.

Sometimes to fear something.

Sometimes to surrender something.

And after a while, Christians need to start asking a difficult question before handing over their loyalty:

“And what else am I being asked to support along with this?”

That question came to mind recently when California banned Kars4Kids advertisements from airing in the state because the ads were found to be misleading by omission. Many donors understandably believed they were broadly helping disadvantaged local children by donating old vehicles. In reality, much of the money funded Orthodox Jewish outreach and education programs connected to a nonprofit called Oorah.

To be clear, the issue was not that Jewish outreach programs exist. The issue was transparency. People thought they were saying yes to one thing while unknowingly underwriting something much narrower, more ideologically specific, and something they were unlikely to want to support.

That dynamic exists everywhere now.

A movement presents one emotionally compelling issue. One urgent crisis. One deeply moral concern.

But beneath that immediate concern often sits an entire ecosystem of assumptions, loyalties, compromises, and power structures that few people fully examine.

And Christians are not immune from this.

In fact, religious people can be especially vulnerable to it because faith naturally involves trust, conviction, sacrifice, and moral seriousness. Those are beautiful qualities. They are also qualities manipulators know how to exploit.

Jesus warned repeatedly about this sort of thing, though not always in the dramatic language modern Christians expect. He spoke about wolves in sheep’s clothing. He warned about religious hypocrisy. He criticized leaders who “tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people’s shoulders” while refusing to carry those burdens themselves. (Matthew 23:4, NIV)

Christ seemed deeply aware that human beings are susceptible to moral performance.

That has not changed.

One of the stranger realities of modern life is how many institutions now function like religions while insisting they are not religious at all. Political movements do this. Media ecosystems do this. Influencer culture certainly does this. Even corporations have learned to wrap themselves in moral language when it helps sell products.

A company paints itself with the language of compassion while quietly exploiting workers overseas.

A political movement rallies people around one morally urgent issue while smuggling in a dozen other actions surrounding power, truth, economics, freedom, immigration, race, voting rights, or human dignity.

An online community begins by offering belonging and slowly starts demanding ideological conformity in exchange.

Human beings often enter movements through one moral doorway and only later discover how many other things came attached to the building.

I think about this every election season.

Many Christians vote primarily around abortion because they sincerely believe unborn life matters. I understand that instinct. I share the conviction that human life possesses sacred dignity. But political coalitions are never single-issue arrangements. Every vote also empowers broader approaches to healthcare, environmental stewardship, immigration, criminal justice, economic policy, voting access, foreign policy, and public truthfulness.

And this problem is hardly isolated to one side of the political spectrum. People who enter movements because they genuinely care about justice, equality, or protecting vulnerable communities can also find themselves excusing ties to special and foreign interests that would not be desirable if brought into the light.

Human beings are remarkably capable of overlooking behavior they would condemn in their opponents.

That realization should humble all of us.

Including me.

A few years ago I caught myself doomscrolling late at night after some particularly ugly political news cycle. I could feel my body reacting physically. Tight shoulders. Elevated heart rate. Irritation looking for a target. I remember realizing that by the end of the evening I was no longer actually thinking morally or spiritually about anything. I was simply emotionally flooded. Agitated. Ready to react.

And the frightening part was how righteous it felt.

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That experience stayed with me because it forced me to confront something uncomfortable: outrage can create the illusion of moral clarity while quietly deforming the soul underneath it.

Modern media systems understand this extremely well.

Social media platforms, fundraising operations, political consultants, outrage-driven news networks, and activist organizations all know the same basic truth: emotionally activated people are easier to influence.

Fear raises engagement.

Anger raises engagement.

Moral outrage raises engagement.

And engagement generates money.

Many modern systems profit by keeping human beings too emotionally flooded to think morally.

That should disturb Christians far more than it often does.

Because eventually people begin confusing emotional activation with moral seriousness.

They mistake perpetual outrage for courage.

They mistake tribal loyalty for faithfulness.

They mistake constant reaction for discernment.

Meanwhile compassion shrinks. Nuance disappears. Suspicion deepens. Human beings become categories instead of neighbors.

And conscience slowly begins outsourcing itself to the crowd.

The early desert Christians understood this danger remarkably well. The Desert Fathers and Mothers spent enormous amounts of time examining thoughts, fears, impulses, attachments, and motives because they believed spiritual deception often enters through disordered desire. A person desperate for certainty can be manipulated when someone offers them such. A person consumed by fear can be controlled through fear.

A person hungry for power will eventually attempt to baptize power.

That remains true whether the banner is political, religious, ideological, or cultural.

Which is why Christians need to recover two deeply unfashionable spiritual disciplines: interior examination and critical thinking.

Why does this message make me instantly angry?

Why does this leader feel emotionally irresistible to me?

Why am I afraid to question this movement?

Why do I suddenly lose moral standards when “my side” behaves badly?

Those are not merely political questions.

Those are spiritual questions.

And Christians should not fear asking them.

You do not have to choose between faith and critical thinking.

You do not have to amputate your intelligence in order to belong to Christ.

In fact, mature Christianity should make manipulation harder, not easier.

The Holy Spirit is not honored by panic. Nor by cruelty. Nor by blind loyalty. Nor by surrendering conscience to any earthly tribe.

One of the clearest warning signs of spiritual danger is when questioning becomes forbidden. Healthy faith can survive scrutiny. Healthy leaders can tolerate honest questions. Healthy communities do not require emotional coercion to maintain unity.

Control fears examination.

Truth does not.

I think many people today are spiritually exhausted because they are living inside permanent emotional mobilization. Every day demands outrage. Every disagreement becomes civilization-ending. The nervous system was never designed to sustain that level of activation indefinitely.

Eventually people become numb, cynical, anxious, chronically angry, or emotionally depleted.

Sometimes all at once.

Which is why discernment also requires rest.

Silence helps.

Prayer helps.

Stepping away from the algorithm helps.

Reading Scripture slowly instead of consuming clipped verses attached to partisan content helps.

Paying attention to the fruits of a message helps too.

Does it produce compassion, honesty, patience, courage, humility, self-control?

Or does it produce fear, addiction, contempt, arrogance, and permanent agitation?

Jesus said, “By their fruit you will recognize them.” (Matthew 7:16, NIV)

That applies to leaders, movements, media ecosystems, and ourselves.

Because eventually every Christian has to confront a difficult possibility: perhaps the greatest competition for our worship is not atheism, but distraction. Manipulation. Tribal identity. Emotional exhaustion. The endless industrial machine of persuasion trying to monetize every remaining inch of human attention.

And somewhere inside all that noise, Christ still speaks.

Not through panic.

Not through algorithmic rage.

Not through emotional coercion.

But persistently.

Calling people back toward truth, mercy, courage, repentance, compassion, clarity, and freedom.

Real freedom.

Not merely the freedom to consume or react, but the freedom to remain morally awake in a world constantly trying to purchase our conscience.

Practices for the Week

1. Before reacting to a headline, political claim, or emotionally charged post, pause for one full minute and ask: “What emotion is this trying to trigger in me?”

2. Read Matthew 23 slowly this week. Pay attention to Christ’s warnings about hypocrisy, public religiosity, and spiritual burden-shifting.

3. Spend one evening without algorithm-driven media. No doomscrolling, outrage videos, or comment wars. Notice what happens internally.

4. When you strongly disagree with someone this week, ask one sincere question before defending your position.

5. Pray this simple prayer daily: “Lord, keep my conscience awake and my heart honest.”

None of these practices will make us perfectly discerning overnight. But they can help restore enough interior steadiness to recognize when someone is trying to manipulate fear, guilt, outrage, greed, or tribal loyalty for purposes that do not lead toward Christ.

That steadiness is becoming increasingly rare.

And the frightening thing is that none of us are fully immune from this. Not clergy. Not educated people. Not sincere Christians.

Discernment is not a skill we master once.

It is a form of spiritual vigilance we return to over and over again.

I would genuinely love to hear your thoughts in the comments. Have you experienced moments where you realized a movement, organization, media source, or political tribe was asking for more loyalty than you initially understood? How do you stay morally grounded without becoming cynical?

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Closing Prayer

Lord Jesus Christ,

Teach us how to remain awake in a world constantly competing for our fear, attention, loyalty, and outrage. There are so many voices demanding immediate certainty and immediate allegiance. Some speak partial truths. Some manipulate wounds we barely understand ourselves. Some promise safety while quietly asking us to surrender conscience, compassion, or honesty in return.

Give us wisdom deep enough to recognize the difference.

Protect us from becoming people who trade moral clarity for tribal belonging. Guard us from fear that hardens the heart or anger that slowly deforms the soul. Keep us from confusing emotional intensity with spiritual maturity.

Teach us how to examine our own motives honestly. Teach us how to recognize when pride, fear, resentment, or exhaustion are shaping our reactions more than Your Spirit is.

Help us become people who can think clearly, love courageously, and remain compassionate even inside a culture addicted to outrage and suspicion.

And when we feel overwhelmed by all the noise, draw us back toward Your presence, where truth does not require manipulation and love does not depend on fear.

Keep our conscience awake.

Keep our hearts tender.

Keep our eyes fixed on You.

Amen.

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